Why You Don’t Want an Initial Consultation — But a Life & Legacy Planning® Session Instead
Most people who meet with an
estate planning lawyer
expect a standard “initial consultation.” You meet, answer a few questions about your family and assets, and walk away with a quote for a will or trust.
It sounds simple — but that’s the problem.
This transactional approach often leads to confusion, incomplete planning, and false peace of mind. Too many Florida families think their plan is “done,” only to discover later that critical gaps leave loved ones unprotected.
At Sibley Law & Associates, we believe your first meeting should do more than check boxes. It should give you clarity, control, and confidence — and set the foundation for a plan that actually works when your family needs it most.
That’s why we don’t offer a typical consultation. We offer a Life & Legacy Planning® Session — a focused, working meeting designed to help you make fully informed decisions about your family, your assets, and your future.
The Problem with a Typical Consultation
A standard consultation usually focuses on what documents you “need” — a will, trust, power of attorney, and health care directive — along with what they’ll cost. But this kind of approach skips the heart of the matter:
what truly matters to you.
It often means the lawyer doesn’t have a process in place to understand your family dynamics, your goals, or how Florida law actually applies to your situation. One-size-fits-all pricing or “packages” are red flags that you may not be getting guidance customized to your family’s reality.
At Sibley Law, we take the opposite approach.
What Makes the Life & Legacy Planning® Session Different
Our Life & Legacy Planning® Session is a hands-on two-hour meeting that walks you step-by-step through how the law applies to you, your loved ones, and your assets — right here in Florida.
We start by showing you exactly what would happen if something were to happen to you today — under Florida law — so you can see where your current plan (or lack thereof) might leave gaps. Most clients are surprised by what they learn.
From there, we walk through the decisions that matter most:
- Who would step forward for your children or aging parents?
- How can you ensure your family avoids court and conflict?
- Would you want your financial and personal matters to remain private?
- How would your loved ones access your accounts, passwords, or digital assets?
These are the real-life questions that determine whether your plan will work — not just when things go smoothly, but when life happens.
A Plan That Reflects Your Family and Your Values
Estate planning isn’t about documents — it’s about people.
During your Life & Legacy Planning® Session, we’ll take the time to understand your loved ones, your priorities, and your values. Maybe your focus is protecting your spouse’s future, ensuring your children are cared for the way you want, or keeping your affairs private. Maybe you own property in multiple states or run a family business that needs to stay operational.
Whatever matters most to you, this process helps you align your plan with your goals — and gives you confidence that everything you love will be cared for exactly as you intend.
We also go beyond finances. For most families, the most valuable inheritance isn’t money — it’s guidance, stories, and wisdom. Through our Life & Legacy Planning® Process, we help you capture and preserve those intangible assets, ensuring your legacy carries far more meaning than what’s written on paper.
What to Expect in the Session
During your Life & Legacy Planning® Session, we will:
- Educate you about Florida law and how it applies to you: We’ll clearly show you what would happen if you became incapacitated or passed away today — so you can make informed, proactive choices.
- Review your family dynamics and financial picture: You’ll complete a personal asset inventory before the meeting, and we’ll go through it together. This ensures no asset — or family member — is left out.
- Clarify your goals and priorities: Everyone’s plan looks different. Some want to protect their children’s inheritance from divorce or creditors; others want to minimize taxes or maintain privacy. This session gives you space to define what’s most important.
- Choose the right plan and path forward: By the end of the session, you’ll know exactly what options are available, how they work in real life, and which fits your budget and goals. You’ll leave with full transparency — no surprises, no guesswork.
Why It Matters
The Life & Legacy Planning® Session is more than a meeting — it’s the foundation of a lifelong relationship with a law firm that’s committed to keeping your plan up to date as your life changes.
Traditional consultations stop at “what” you need. Our Session gives you the why and the how behind every decision.
When you leave, you’ll have:
- Clarity about what would happen if something happened to you today.
- Confidence that your choices reflect your values.
- Peace of mind knowing your family will be cared for when they need it most.
That’s the difference between an estate plan that works — and one that fails.
Your Next Step
If you’ve been putting off estate planning because it felt transactional, complicated, or overwhelming — you’re not alone.
Our mission is to make the process educational, empowering, and personal. You’ll leave with clarity and the assurance that your plan will work for the people you love.
To get started, we offer two simple ways to begin:
- Attend a Free Estate Planning Seminar: Join us for one of our upcoming Estate Planning Essentials events. These sessions are designed to give you a clear overview of how planning works in Florida, common mistakes to avoid, and how our Life & Legacy Planning® Process can protect your family.
- When you attend a seminar, your Life & Legacy Planning® Session fee is waived.
- Schedule a 15-Minute Discovery Call: Prefer to start one-on-one? Book a short call with our team to determine whether our process is the right fit for your family. During this call, we’ll answer your initial questions, explain what to expect, and help you decide the best next step.
Start by registering for a seminar or scheduling your Discovery Call today — and take the first step toward protecting your family and your peace of mind.
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This article is a service of Sibley Law, a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than ever before and make the best choices for the people you love. Contact us today at https://www.legacylawyeratsibleylaw.com/contact to schedule your session.
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